People either fall into good or bad. There is really no in between. And if you think there is you are lying to yourself, committing self harm, cutting and abusing the rest of us. The way to tell if someone is good or bad is to see what script they have you in. What are you actually allowed to do and say? What is the reaction and the consequence if you change direction or go off script? Come on, love you are smarter than this. Would you just get yourself together and be a decent person? You are here listening for a reason. You must have a heart for something here. Stop your nonsense. Break your ties. Change your phone number. Cancel your email. Quit your job. Move out. Get divorced. Find new friends and family. Move along little bird. We are tired of all this attack coming from your direction.